Beyond Care · The Complete Toolkit
If you've been buying these one at a time, this is the move.
Conversation Scripts. Crisis Day Plan. Before Burnout Takes Over. Grieving Someone Who's Still Here. Care Load Map. The whole library, one purchase, yours forever.
Five fillable PDFs. 147 pages combined. Works on any device.
One-time purchase. Instant download. Built by Kylie Goldman, MSW, whose family cared for her grandmother through Alzheimer's. Five toolkits, one library, yours forever.
The math
If you bought these one by one, you would spend $135. The bundle saves you $38. The reason it exists isn't the savings. It's that caregiving doesn't come at you in a queue. Multiple parts land at once, not one at a time.
You save $38.
The bundle exists because the work doesn't come at you one tool at a time.
Five toolkits, each built for one specific part of caregiving. Each one stands alone. Together, they cover the territory.
$7 separately · 14 pages
The clinical exercise that maps everything you carry across five dimensions: emotional, logistical, physical, relational, identity. Five Share Pages you can hand to family, therapists, or care coordinators when "what do you even do all day?" lands wrong. The page that makes the invisible visible.
$17 separately · 33 pages
Eight scenario plans for the day everything falls apart. They fell. They are refusing care. The call from the hospital. Every step pre-decided so you don't have to think on the worst day. Includes a Quick Reference Card you screenshot to your phone.
$27 separately · 26 pages
A 4-week structured plan with a 15-question self-assessment, the Protection Priorities map, and the Weekly Reset Ritual. The plan that picks up where "I'm fine" runs out. Built for the slow drift, not just the cliff.
$37 separately · 18 pages
The grief that has no funeral. Language for ambiguous loss, anticipatory grief, and the Five Griefs caregivers carry. Plus the Permission Statements: the sentences nobody else is going to say to you. For dementia, Alzheimer's, brain injury, severe illness.
$47 separately · 56 pages
15 word-for-word scripts for the conversations no one prepared you for. Sibling Dynamics. Parent Conversations. Medical Advocacy. Self-Advocacy. Crisis Conversations. Every script includes the situation, the prep, the words, the pushback decoded, how to hold your ground, and space to make it your own. Plus the Conversation Prep Checklist and Post-Conversation Debrief.
One-time purchase. Five fillable PDFs. Yours forever.
If you're reading this page, you've probably already decided you want the whole thing. Here's how to think about which tools to open first.
Caregiving doesn't move in a straight line, and the bundle isn't built for one moment. Five places people use it from:
Early diagnosis. Still in shock. Family arguing about what to do.
Start with Conversation Scripts and Care Load Map. Get the language for the conversations and the visibility for the load. Crisis Day Plan and Grief Guide are insurance for later.
Mid-decline. Sibling won't help. Daily logistics swallowing your life.
Start with Conversation Scripts and Crisis Day Plan. Use Care Load Map the next time someone asks "what do you even do all day." Add Before Burnout when you notice you've stopped sleeping right.
Late stage. Anticipatory grief settling in. Energy gone.
Start with the Grief Guide and Before Burnout. Crisis Day Plan stays open on your phone. Conversation Scripts for the family conversations that are still coming.
Long-distance coordinator. You can't drop in to course-correct.
Start with Care Load Map so you can see what the on-the-ground caregiver is actually carrying, and Crisis Day Plan because the day everything goes sideways is the day you're seven hours away. Conversation Scripts for the sibling and parent calls. Add Before Burnout for the slow drift that hits long-distance caregivers especially hard, the guilt of not being there layered on top of logistics.
Post-loss or post-placement. The caregiving role just ended.
The Grief Guide is for you. Hold onto Before Burnout for the unexpected exhaustion that follows the role ending. The other three you may not need at all. The bundle is yours forever; open them only if the day comes.
The bundle is built so you don't have to figure out the right tool while you're already inside the moment. You buy them so they're there when the next hard part lands, not so you have to read all five today.
Three things stop costing you energy.
One. You stop deciding which problem to address first. The conversation, the crisis, the burnout, the grief, the load: they don't queue politely. The bundle means whichever one surfaces tonight, the right tool is already on your laptop.
Two. You stop buying the next piece while you're inside the situation that needed it. It's easy to buy these tools after the situation that needed each one. The morning after the family meeting that went sideways. The week after the fall. Buying once, before, is the work the bundle does for you.
Three. You stop wondering whether the next thing exists. You have it. You know what's in your library. The decision is no longer "do I buy this," it's "do I open it tonight."
Before:
Something hard happens.
You Google for an hour at midnight.
You buy one tool. It helps.
Two weeks later, a different hard thing happens.
You Google again.
The cycle keeps repeating, always reactive, always after.
After:
You buy the bundle on a Sunday afternoon.
You skim the table of contents of all five.
You fill in the Care Load Map this week. The Crisis Day Plan next month.
When the family meeting goes sideways, the Scripts are already there.
When the fall happens, the Plan is already there.
You stop being one step behind your own life.
Why the bundle exists
I'm Kylie. Master of Social Work. Twelve years of clinical work, most of it with caregivers. And the granddaughter who watched her family try to navigate Alzheimer's care without a script for any of it.
I built each of these tools individually because each one is for one specific part of caregiving that nobody hands you the language for. The conversations. The crisis days. The slow burnout. The ambiguous grief. The invisible load.
I built the bundle because the work doesn't come at you in a queue. The fall happens the same week as the sibling conversation. The grief shows up in the middle of the burnout. The load gets heaviest the month you most need to sit down with the Crisis Day Plan, and you can't.
The bundle is not a discount play. It's an availability play. Whichever piece you need next, you already have it.
Then start with one or two. The individual tools are listed at beyondcareco.com/tools. The bundle math works in your favour once you'd have bought three or more. If you're early in caregiving and don't yet know which pieces you'll need, the bundle is the move because the work doesn't queue.
If you've bought one, the bundle still saves you money over buying the remaining four separately. If you've bought two or three, do the math: total what you've paid plus what the remaining tools would cost individually, vs. just buying the remaining ones one at a time from the Tools page. Replying to your purchase email also works if you want me to walk you through it.
No. The Care Load Map, Crisis Day Plan, Before Burnout Takes Over, and Conversation Scripts apply to caregiving across the board: aging parents, chronic illness, late-stage cancer, severe mental illness, recovery from major medical events. Grieving Someone Who's Still Here is built for ambiguous loss specifically (dementia, Alzheimer's, brain injury, addiction, severe mental illness, stroke), but applies whenever you're grieving someone still physically here.
Five fillable PDFs. Open them on your phone, your tablet, your laptop. Type into the fields directly using the free Adobe Acrobat Reader. Print as many copies as you need. One-time purchase. Yours forever, on every device you have or will get.
No. The bundle is a set of educational and reflective resources, not a substitute for medical or mental health care. They are built on clinical training and family-systems frameworks, but they are tools, not treatment. If you're in crisis, please call or text 988 (Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, US/Canada) or text HOME to 741741. A toolkit is not a replacement for a clinician.
You can keep buying them one at a time, after the situation that needed each one. Or you can have all five ready before whichever part shows up next.
$97
Care Load Map · Crisis Day Plan · Before Burnout Takes Over
Grieving Someone Who's Still Here · Conversation Scripts
Five fillable PDFs · 147 pages · one-time payment · yours forever.
For the version of you who would rather have the toolkit ready than be one step behind your own life.
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